text: I can imagine it. I was active duty on recruiting duty when I got chaptered. Luckily my commander was super cool and understanding. I even sent them tons of facts about the whole thing and they still forced me out. To be honest, I’m happier, my relationship with my kids are better and my relationship with my wife is better. I do miss the pay but I’m working up to be where I was. I took a $30k/year pay cut getting out and my health insurance is worse but overall I’m happier.