text: In reply to message43106: I have one daughter addicted to heroin. She had a baby almost a year ago. We had her during the week for the first three months of her life. Then dyfs gave her back to my daughter and her boyfriend. She has been keeping her from us because we call her out and the only way she can hurt is is by not letting us see our granddaughter. Grandparents have little rights in NJ. But life has been crumbling around them and we may be close to the state giving her back to us. I'm going to be 58 next month and my wife is 50. As much as we don't want a baby we will do whatever is necessary for any of our grandchildren. We already have custody of a granddaughter since she was born and she is now 12. Prayers to all my Brothers and Sisters fighting for their children or grandchildren. God speed to all of you.